Rainy November

Time moves so fast! It`s like just yesterday we greeted each others a happy new year. And now here we are in November. Just two months before year 2012. Rain is falling almost everyday in Indonesia. I`m kind of like this weather. Rain gives you so much inspiration to write. Or maybe it is just because the cool temprature that makes your brain cool enough to think clearly.

I want to share with you some random things in the first week of this lovely November.

 1st November is my grandmother`s birthday. She is 87 years old now. Still strong and still health! Super grandma! God with you always.

 My friend who just came from Malaysia give me A LOT OF CHOCOLATES as a gift. This is my favourite! It is a kind of him to bring me a gift but I think he also want to make me fat! LOL.

Last saturday, my friends and I went to Motzen at Dago Pakar. We ate, chatted, and played  ``Saboter`` game. It`s used a pack of cards. Basically about team work where the good guys must find gold and the saboters must preclude the gold seekers. I`m addicted and could`t stop playing it. Looking forward to play it again with you guys.

I found this funny things at my english course class. My class mates wrote this when I were absent. Maybe this is can`t help you to avoid someone. Some are funny and some are too harsh I think.

I`m also taking Korean course. And last friday I just did my speaking test. Which`s totally and completely a mess! I don`t know how the result is. Learning korean languanges is not as easy as I imagined.

My beautiful friend treated us for celebrating her birthday on 31th Octotober. We came to her home, made a surprise. The cake is not an ordinary birthday cake. It`s my new invention. Salad  ``cake``. We gave her salad where we put mashed potatoes in the middle to stick on the birthday candles. We gave them salad because that food represenst her slim body. And she really like eating salad. I should follow her! LOL. Happy birthday to you once again Cheery. Have a healthy and happy year ahead.

Well, that`s what happened to me lately. Good night everybody! Have a dreamy night everybody.

Just The Way You Are?

Hello adorable people! How's life treat you these days? I hope you all fine. I'm welcoming November with my new hair. Yes. I'm straighten my hair. Because my ordinary hair is so messy. I'm like just woke up from my sleep with my old hair. Even if I have brushed it. So I decided to changed it. How do you think? I know my family and my friends love me with my new hair, and they also still love me even if I'm still with my messy helpless hair. But I just want to changed it. Some of my friends do not realize that I starighten my hair, though I'm just feel good about my new hair.

It is so sweet and relieve if  your family and your friends accept you just the way you are. It is so good that you are proud to be yourself. But that doesn't mean that changes are prohibited. Sometimes people have wrong ideas about this thing. Changes are needed. Of course I'm talking about positif changes. Don't trapped in the same old you. Nobody's perfect in this world. Maybe we have some bad habits that must be eliminated. Maybe we have some hobies that we really like but we are not so good in it, then practice! Practice maybe not make it perfect, but practice definitely will make your skill better. And I think it is all right if you want to change your physical apperance. But I'm personally not agree about plastic surgery. It's too extrim. I mean like dress smarter, have a new hair cut, or build some muscles maybe? People said inner beauty is important. I do think so, but your outer beauty is also important too. It's also okay to go on diet as long as for the health reason. Be beautiful inside and outside!

Maintain all the goods things that you have in you. That what the word "stay the same" mean. Try to get rid of all bad things that you have.Step out from your comfort zone. In the process of changes, don't loose yourself. Take it easy. Don`t forced it and don't too harsh on yourself. Changes need time. Some people need short time, some people need quite a long time. Challenge yourself to be better everyday. Have an exciting day everyone!

Youth Will Never Die

Have you ever felt that you are getting older,older and older everyday? Eventhough just one day passed since yesterday? The fact that you are more easily tired now than in the past. The fact that you are the oldest one in your english class. The fact that your nieces and nephews have grown up so much. The fact that everyone ask when will you get married? The fact that you often attended your high school friend's wedding lately. I have. That makes me so insecured and scared. Will my hair turn on white? Will wrinkles appeared on my face? Will my body getting weak? Will I have more complicated problems? Life is more simple when I was a kid.

Until someday I read a very great poem about youth. I will share some words for you. Here we go.

             What makes us grown ups anyway? Let's search for the moment..........

                 When youth betrayed itself to age, let the children play in your heart always

       Remember the meaning of playing out in the rain, we swim in the youth timeless maze

 

I will not let go of that youthful soul!

Because despite body and mind, youth will never die!

My hair will turn white. Wrinkles will appear on my face and entire body. My body will getting weak because of age. So what? As long as you always have that youthful soul, you will always young.  Age is just a number. And I also realize one thing : I'm 23 years old now, I have grown up. This fact is show that God has guided and accompanied me for 23 years! How faithful He is.

Growing up and getting older are amazing thing! You will meet your life partner, getting married, have adorable children, build a family, have grandchildren and getting older (again) with your husband until death tears you apart. These are the circle of life. I don't worry anymore now. I will have older face, weaker body, grown up mind, but that youthfoul soul always stay in me.

Behind the scene : I did the photoshoot with my sister from the sweetest escape. Don't we looked very silly?LOL.

Let’s Forgive, Now!

Selama kita hidup di dunia, kita gak mungkin terhindar dari yang namanya sakit hati. Setiap orang PASTI pernah sakit hati, siapapun itu. Mungkin yang menyakiti hati kita memang gak sengaja, tapi tetep aja rasa sakit itu ada. Apalagi kalau yang sengaja, mungkin bisa sampai jadi dendam kesumat.

Kalau kita cerita ke orangtua atau temen bahwa seseorang udah menyakiti hati kita, mereka mungkin akan langsung berslogan "forgive and forget".Forgive and forget. Memang gampang buat dikatakan dan diingat. Tapi prakteknya tidak semudah itu.

Teman-teman, aku cuma mau bilang, kalau kita disakiti orang, cepet-cepet beresin masalahnya sama orang yang bersangkutan. Bilang sejujurnya kalo tindakan dia itu sudah menyakiti hati kita. Bicarakan secara baik-baik. Buka hati kita buat memaafkan. Dan lupakan (ini yang paling sulit) apa yang sudah diperbuat orang tersebut sama kita. Percaya deh, ga ada gunanya menyimpan rasa dendam dan sakit hati. Yang ada kita jadi emosi, gak mood ngapa-ngapain, dan kesel sendiri setiap kali ketemu orang yang menyakiti kita. Apalagi kalau kalian dulunya temen terus gara-gara sakit hati yang gak diberesin persahabatan kalian jadi berantakan.

Bagi temen-temen yang ada dipihak "orang yang menyakiti", jangan ragu-ragu buat minta maaf. Ga worth it banget hubungan kita sama seseorang, apalagi orang yang deket, jadi rusak gara-gara gengsi semata.

Memaafkan bukan berarti kalah. Memaafkan bukan berarti kita lemah. Maafkanlah orang sudah menyakiti hati kita, tetapi jangan biarkan orang tersebut menyakiti hati kalian lagi.

Ayo beresin masalah dan segala rasa sakit hati yang ada.SEKARANG! Jangan lama-lama menyimpan rasa sakit hati karena semakin lama disimpan luka di hati semakin dalem dan semakin sulit diobati. Mungkin bagi beberapa orang hal ini sulit, tapi ayo cobain. Kalian pasti bisa! Jangan sampai kalian terlambat dan nantinya malah menyesal. Kalau kita udah bisa memaafkan dengan tulus, hati ini bakal lega banget, selega 100 kali lapangan sepakbola. Hidup ini terlalu berharga buat diisi sama dendam dan sakit hati. So, let's forgive and forget ^^

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner is you” (Lewis B.S)

I Miss You!

I don't know why I become so melancholy recently. I miss everything that I could miss. I miss my campus life. I miss my long distanced friends. I miss my childhood. When you miss something, usually you get a flashback. And I realize what a great life I have. What a great familes and friends I have. I'm very thank God for that.

Time moves so fast. We don't know when the time we will go. Or the time they will go. So if you miss someone, say it to them. I MISS YOU. There simple words that will make someone feel happy and feel their presence is so precious for you.

Don't forget to give a call, a text, an email, or even a visit for someone whom you miss! Happy weekend. I hope you have a nice one. God bless you.

I'm Feeling White

I like all colours that exist in this world, especially the colorfull one. But sometimes white make me fall in love too.

This is a basic colour that you can combine with any colour. Because she is make friends with anyone!

Wedding dress is white. Snow is white. Pollar bear is white. President's house is called white house. White is the symbol of purity, chastity, and simplicity.

Pictures of My FavouriteThings

When the dog bites
When the bee stings
When I'm feeling sad
I simply remember my favorite things
And then I don't feel so bad

                                                      I always can not refused this things!

I really like reading book but my most favourite book, from my childhood, is always a fairytale. It's so unreal, imaginative, and free.

Rainbow is always amazed me! It's a symbol that's the storm already gone. It's a symbol of God's grace when He promised Noah that He won't destroy earth with flood.